For women, before the threshold of marriage everyone is eager, day and night are looking forward to the day when they get in the float, even dreaming about a warm house with husband and wife and laughter.Getting married near home or away from home with sisters now is not important, as long as being loved, married to the man you choose is enough.But then everything was like a dream, getting married near and did not say, getting married far away, there were dozens of sad things later.
Far away from home is not sad?To answer this question, please borrow the story of an anonymous young mother.The story posted in a group of sisters with a lot of members on social networks has attracted a lot of attention.With the sincerity, it has been touched in the right mind that many women have been buried in their hearts for a long time, so that when they finished reading some tears, they have fallen out.
"Get married far away later, don't call anyone!
This is the message my father sent, reading mercifully.I live in Daklak, later married in Saigon.My husband likes to eat plums, but the grandmother has a delicious Thai plum tree, so the plum season is so dad to pick it up and send them to eat.In the morning, my father picked up the car to send the car and then broke the branch and fell.Calling his father, Dad also said: "Dad is okay, but plums are crushed with scratches for a bit."It sounds pity.
Today Facebook repeated the post of the last year I posted.Crying again, again pity for getting married away from home.In the past, I thought it was very simple, just 8 hours to go to a car, I thought happiness was to marry the person you love.Illusion of strength, thinking of leaving all family and friends, following the call of the heart is the hero, will be admired, her husband will thus love more respectfully.
The excitement of the newly started marriage life has started to turn off.Well, living in a strange city is not easy.No brothers, relatives, no friends, not all.Turns out a few cheesy sentences: '' I just need you, to be with you to feel happy '' or '' My life is only you are enough '' are all books.
Leaving work and unemployed, wandering around the 4 walls at home waiting for her husband to come back.Funny but merciful, if the husband only plays alone.I don't know if my husband is boring, but I am bored with my neck, bored to crazy people and she turned into a bran.There are times when homesick, remember friends who want to gather somewhere or simply want someone to talk to turn.
There are times when, sitting for hours in the house just looking out on the street, tears falling out of tears.That is still the husband.Not sure to leave all to start over.Who understands?Who pins?Every day, my husband invited to eat with his friends, he was happy to catch gold because the simple reason was to go to the street, be dressed well, gently makeup, found himself "live".
Then in the early days of pregnancy, many morning sickness tortured.It is said that getting married near, the grandmother still takes care of all kinds, while getting married far away is determined to bear extreme alone.Is there sadness?When I was sick, my husband had no home and he was alone, his fever still had to do everything like he was not sick.When I was sick, it was the weakest time but 1 tear did not fall because if it was not strong, who would be weak?Who is good, who knows, who is sorry, who loves?
Well, now that when I was close, I went to my family to stay ... I had to leave my husband, I had my father and my neighbors, I wanted to stay at home, want to have my husband by my side ... Remember my husband to come and turn to come and come.Tears, self -pity.Just one another lost, stop for children, for life that tries.Now I can't change anything now. "