This year I am 26 years old, working as an accountant of the construction material company.I have been married for three years and have a grandson over one year old.My husband is a mechanical employee at the factory, 4 years older than me.He is quiet but loves and cares about his wife and children.We also had our own home, the couple's life was not much worried about the rice and rice.But somehow, when I had a baby until now, he and I kept arguing and arguing continuously.But the main reason is only because of the calculationjealous His cause.
After giving birth to my first child, I 'changed my skin'.Baby looks beautiful, skin is also white and smoother than girls.Everyone praised me better than before.Someone said that I looked like something passionate about a girl, looking very attractive.
At the end of the maternity time, I went back to work.I could not let myself be too sloppy, so I went to work a few days earlier to look younger and more dynamic.But when he got home, he did not praise his wife a word, so he still let go of an indifferent sentence that made me angry: "Is planning to make a look at my boyfriend?Huh?".I was very angry but also tried to say a few gentle sentences through the story.
Every morning when I saw me makeup to work, he grumbled, he hintedjealous, then your face grimaced.I was silent to let him say anything, because I knew that if I spoke out how the couple also quarreled.Knowing that he did not like it, I gradually limited lipstick when going to work, just filling her lips for Hong.I don't leave it to my companycolleagueJoking and that for fear he misunderstood.In addition, in the company, people talked about it, showing off to buy and shopping.As for me for a few months to work, there are only 2 office dresses that have been bought for a long time.Thinking about self -pity, but wanting the family to be peaceful, the couple did not quarrel, so they had to accept.
Someone said that I looked like something passionate about a girl, looking very attractive.(Artwork)
The last birthday of the company was a nightmare.That day in the company to celebrate the 10th anniversary of its founding, women were given flowers and a small gift, men had money to drink.That afternoon, when I got home, seeing me hugging the flowers in my arms, he made a fuss: "Whoever gives flowers to you that you cherish like that, do you love him or he fell in love with you?".
I was so choked to my throat.I and him nobody yielded to anyone, the more angry he said the ridiculous things.He draws the story I havemistressand dating outside.Not yet anger, he won the bouquet of flowers to go down to his feet.I showed him the photos taken in the afternoon at the company from my phone, then he stopped.The couple of cold war for several days.
All of these things can endure and patience.But what happened a few days ago made me angry and retaliate against him.
That afternoon on the way home from work, my car was broken.I called him many times but he did not pick up.Incidentally, a younger brother worked with the company to pass and let me be too.The colleague was 5 years younger than me, his temperament was funny, or helped everyone so everyone loved it.Sitting in the car, the two sisters laughed happily.Then heaven and earth made me unknown how he went after us.
When I got back to my house, I could not invite my colleague to drink water, my husband also arrived.The helmet was wearing on the head, the aggressively rushed over, saying nothing to grab the collar and punching him in the face.
Seeing that I was hugging the flower in my arms, he made a fuss: "Who gave her flowers that she cherished like that, she loved him or he loved her?" (Artwork)
I screamed and rushed to stop him.He pushed me away, he did not let me and he say a word.He scolded us badly, which is a cat and chicken, which is a woman who dares to plug her husband, dare to despise her husband to take her home to home.I said it was the same younger brother.He also tried to explain but he pointed to my face: "Don't overtake, how do you two see the four lovers."Hearing noisy, the neighbors went out to look and advised: “If anything, go into the house slowly resolving, fighting loudly in the street like this is not good.She loved boys, she returned to her mother's house, why did he suffer from the same shame? ”
The words of the neighbor said made my husband more crazy.I also frustrated again: "What do you know that?".So my husband slapped me on his cheek, then pulled straight into the house, then returned to the car and closed the gate.Leaving his colleague's face standing outside with a swollen face.I was so embarrassed and embarrassed, wanting to run to apologize but afraid my husband was still angry.
Entering the house, he still interrogated me.I was so annoyed, if he thought so, I broke up, I went to my mother's home to help him see his face.Then I picked up my bag, graduated to pick up my children, left my mother's home.
The next morning, my husband came to my mother's house to pick me up.He apologized and begged, regretted.He said that because he was so angry at that time, he was no longer awake.He promised to never do that again.Seeing him realize that the error I also followed but know what to do more. I understand him because he loves his wife, afraid of losing his wife so he is so jealous.But why do you always suspect your wife?You are toodisregardMe, you embarrassed me in front of everyone.He kept jealous of blindness from time to time and sometimes I wanted to suffocate.Do you have any way for my husband to change, just help me.