Born 3 children within 6 years, the third time of overtaking pain like "dying to live again"
Young mother Hoang Tieu Thuong (27 years old, currently working as a dance teacher, choreographer dance in Hoai Duc, Hanoi) shared, she married in 2014 but now divorced and became a single mother with3 lovely daughters named Huong Tra - Huong Giang - Huong Ngoc.
Recalling the journey with 3 of her princess, Ms. Thuong said: "In 2014, I gave birth to my first baby.The second baby was born in 2016 and the youngest baby was born in 2018.I gave birth to my first baby when I was quite young, it was easy to pass by the method.
Until giving birth to the second baby, everything is not as I want.I am forced to have a caesarean sectionThe umbilical cord wrap neckBaby 2 rounds.I went to the surgery room to get a little scared, but when I thought about giving birth, there was another lovely kid so I helped.But it was only brave until the anesthetic was over, I was hurt like breaking each fiber, walking like a cuffs.
The youthful appearance of Ms. Hoang Tieu Thuong despite having experienced 3 births.
In 2018, I voted the third baby, this time was also very worried because the old incision was just over 1 year afraid of being podium.When I went to the doctor, the doctor said it was okay, so I decided to keep the baby back to give birth.Everyone kept saying that they tried to give birth to a son?I answered no, I vote, but not important to boys and girls.
This time, I have a lot of courage, I feel scared.Pain such as "dying back and forth" because of his incision, surgery in the surgery room for 2 hours was out of the room.Out of anesthetics because I have pain I have to relieve pain continuously.Because I used antibiotics, I got itmilk clogged, fever, now thinking back still shudder".
All 3 times pregnant, Ms. Thuong did not abstain from much but still went to teach normal dance, until the day until now, on the birth table.She thought that perhaps because she learned dance and trained, her health was supple and stable.She gave birth to 3 children while her age was quite young, so her health was good, easy to recover and regain her physique quickly.Currently, when she is a mother 3 children, she still holds weight at 42kg, waist 60cm.
Regularly hard at night, the priceless youth exchange 3 lovely, docile daughters
The life of a single mother 3 children is not easy.Ms. Thuong's work is quite busy, there are days when going from morning to 11-12pm to return.Fortunately, she has a native mother to take care of the grandchildren.
Three lovely, lovely daughters like the angel of Tieu Thuong: Huong Tra - Huong Giang - Huong Ngoc.
The children of Thuong's family soon became independent, every morning they woke up early, the two older children knew personal hygiene.From putting toothpaste in the brush, using a cup of mouth garment, brushing, using a towel, how to squeeze towels ... The children can do it themselves after the mother taught a few times.
The grandmother will cook food for the children, then Ms. Thuong prepared clothes for the children to go to school.Whenever she had to go early in the morning, her grandmother would take on the taken to the class.
"In the afternoon, she welcomed the youngest baby and I went to work to welcome two big friends.When she came home, she took advantage of bathing for children, and I cooked dinner.My job often goes to work outside office hours, so I finished cooking, I could not eat it.Every day, when I go home early, eat early, late when you have a snack outside and then come home alone a tray of rice.Older children are about to enter grade 1, so this time I also arrange time in the evening to teach my children to practice writing, reading, practicing bowl ...- Ms. Thuong talked about life as a mother of three children.
The 3 children of Ms. Thuong's family were exposed to art early as: learning to dance, making a child model so all 3 children were very confident and bold.Talking about her 3 daughters, Ms. Tham confided, her eldest sister Huong Tra was very obedient, obedient and absorbed.Children are also quite sensitive to strange environment, go to school, catwalk, filming MV are very confident.
The eldest sister Huong Tra has won a number of awards in the child model competitions.3 women often model for fashion brands.
Hai Giang's name Huong Giang, she has curly hair, white skin, so when going out, people often mistakenly be a hybrid.Huong Giang personality, humor, entertainment face, or mischievous, joked and has extremely funny sayings.The second sister often was punished by her mother because she did something wrong to blame her.
As for the youngest baby, it is very small but very obedient, likes to do everything by themselves, after finishing, leaving it in the old place very neatly, if the sisters leave the wrong place, the youngest is ready to bring everything back to the placeold.Possessing a lovely and lovely appearance, all three daughters of Ms. Thuong are modeling for many brands and clothing shops in Hanoi.
"3 friends sometimes play with each other very love, sometimes quarreling, telling each other to fight for crayons, bowls, spoons, big pieces ... in general because of the age of flooring, it is impossible to avoidthis.In the mother's house as the judge tried, all the eldest sister told me, and then the second sister finished telling the youngest.
Children go to school early, so they are very good, they know that they go to school, go home to forge a little more.The youngest friend knows how to contact rice from 1 year of age, to the meal, 3 sisters shook their own rice.
The children also knew how to help her many jobs in the house, the eldest sister and the second sister herself, folded their clothes, folded the towel to put in the closet to help her mother.You also know how to pick up vegetables and snails for the mother to cook soup." - Ms. Thuong said.
Three daughters of Thuong very good, independent and loving each other.
Every mother likes to have a daughter to do the tone, Ms. Thuong has 3 daughters to enjoy taking care of her children.At home, she has a wardrobe, shoes are neatly classified.Every time she went to perform and take pictures, Thuong loved her own make-up, hair, and coordination for the children.She also soon showed her children how to dress, what to wear at home, which clothes to go out.
Busy work is like that, but every month, young mothers take their children to go out 2-3 times, 3 mothers often go to the shopping center, go to the zoo to or go to the cinema.Sometimes the whole family also travels far, beach or resorts around Hanoi.
Economic autonomy, always optimistic, fun to overcome all difficulties
"Because of raising children alone, I always take the initiative in economics, in addition to dancing work, I have opened a small fashion store to earn extra income, my grandmother helps to look after the store every day.3 children who work as a sample of salaries are also 6-7 million/month to help their mothers to study and raise an additional piggy bank for children to know how to save.
Although busy, Thuong still tries to cook delicious meals for her family.
The work is too busy, so sometimes I sit by my tray of rice crying because I don't have time to care or play with my children, and then ask me or I'm too indifferent?But then I have to reassure myself that the job I do is because of my child so I don't need to understand, I understand that I am a mother who always lives because I am.
The rainy winds were cold and stormy, going early late at night, strees work, coughing coughing, losing sounds, falling cars and incidents in the street ... all because I wanted me to have delicious meals, pantsNice shirt, days of education, play ...
Life cannot be avoided when tired and depressed, but then just see 3 children, all sorrows disappear." - She said.
Being a mother has never been easy, making a single mother with 3 children struggling even more piled up.Ms. Thuong is also prepared that in the future, her life and her children will still face many difficulties, but all 4 mother and daughter will always be optimistic, happy, and overcome all.