Recently, Mr. Nguyen Anh Phong (one of the members of the network of people living with HIV Vietnam, the famous author of "Phong's story") shared the heartbreaking story of a boy who was abused.sex.The culprit is none other than his stepfather.The story makes many people extremely angry and pity.
Life is like in hell since his stepfather is sexually abused
It is known that my mother walked again and since then, my life is the days like hell.I was often sexually harassed from the man I called my stepfather.But the most bitter is when confiding with my mother, I do not receive sympathy and comfort.Mom thinks that I think crazy because I am a son, my son and I am very young ...
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According to experts, this boy has the pain of the baby's life that should not be worth it.I am now having the pain of others spreading on my life, on my body, on my future.That pain does not stop in that the pain of a victim of pedophilia, sexual abuse.
Experts hope that if the boy's mother read this letter, holding the son's hand, telling him that he was wrong and never stopped believing what his children had experienced was true.Heal your children.
Parents should remember, children are treasures, priceless gifts God for us.Why let the treasure burden the pain from adults?Do not think everything one -way but ignore the words you say.Until the discovery is late.
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According to the National Health Service (NHS), children who are sexually abused often do not dare to reveal this to adults.They think it is their fault.Or, they were convinced by sexual abuse that it was normal or "special secret".
Children may also be bribed or threatened by abuses, or told that no one believes what they say.
Children who are sexually abused may be interested in the abuse and worry that this is broken, many people know.
In a child who is sexually abused, the following manifestations may appear:
- Change in behavior: Children may start aggressively, live closed, difficult to sleep, often have nightmares or bedwetting.
- Stay away from the abuse: Children may not like or seem to be afraid of a specific person, trying to avoid spending time with that person.
- Sexual behavior: Children with sexual abuse may have sexual behaviors or pornography.
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- Meet physical problems: Children may experience health problems, including genital and anus pain, sexually transmitted infections or children may be pregnant.
- Encourage school problems: Children with sexual abuse may have difficulty focusing on and learning, and the score of children may begin to decrease.
- Giving clues: Children can give suggestions and clues that shows the abuse that is happening without being frankly revealed.
What are the consequences of sexually abused children sex?
According to experts, children with sexual abuse are at risk of severe physical, mental and behavioral damage.It may even cause children to die, depression, and commit suicide, to hurt themselves.Acting behavior can become a persistent obsession throughout life.
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Not only carrying scars, sequelae on the body for a lifetime, many children also suffered permanent damage, affecting fertility later and the risk of sexually transmitted disease ...
The most common consequence of the child's physical condition is the developmental retardation as in the ability to exercise, social capacity, cognitive ability, language expressing ...
In terms of mental health, children often panic, do not trust others and the surrounding environment.Children often sad, depressed and blamed, no longer loving themselves.
In order to prevent sexual abuse in children, parents should teach their children how to protect themselves as not to let others touch the sensitive area, away from strangers trying to be a body, not to let strangers enter the house, teachChildren seek the help of others ... The school should soon bring education to daily subjects so that children can perceive early and away from danger.