- The couple married 13 months without children, so they decided to go to reproductive treatment, do IVF.
- The 5 -year journey full of tears of the couple is offset by female twins.
Nguyen Thi Thao (born in 1992, lived and worked in Hanoi), after getting married for 13 months, her husband and wife still had no good news, so she decided to go to reproductive health examination.It was a day in April 2019, the doctor diagnosed infertility.The results of the examination clearly showed one thing: the sperm husband was small, many deformities.
Since the day when he learned that his children were not as smooth as many people, Thao and his wife were more and more psychological pressure lasting over time.The couple still tries to improve reproductive health in a natural but ineffective way.The examination later, Thao was diagnosed with ovarian failure.The journey to find children to catch more arduous when both husband and wife have health problems.
5 years looking for a baby, sometimes the pregnancy test shows 2 lines but it fails
Retelling the journey to find a hard child, Thao said that she and her husband have gone through IUI in June 2019, 4 times to make eggs as IVF in 2020, 2022, 2023.
In particular, she conducted IVF 2 times at a public hospital.The first time I worked for IVF in 2020, she created 5 embryos, transferred 2 times in November 2020 and March 2021.The first time I moved the embryo, I was not happy to be happy because the first time I saw a pregnancy test showed 2 lines, Thao saw the whole world seemed to collapse after a few days of the embryo being biochemical.
At the end of February 2023, after thoroughly researching the information, Thao went to Mr. Nguyen Ngoc Chien (Director of the Reproductive Support Center, Vinmec International General Hospital).
In December 2023, once again in his life, Thao was seen with a 2 -line pregnancy test.The nurseries in her body and grow up as expected of her.
Thao's journey is briefly summarized, but there are hardships ...
5 years looking for children, the couple shed tears
Thao confessed, in 5 years looking for the child "My family gradually shallowed tears".The couple sometimes hugged and cried, sometimes this person cried not to let the other know.
Fortunately, they always understand and encourage each other to overcome invisible pressure from family and people around."Speaking of if you want to give up, my family has to admit that there is.Because of his wife, after 2 times IVF failed, the spirit of the husband and wife went down, hoping and disappointing.My husband was very miserable to make that decision, but then I encouraged my husband to "sperm and hope"., Thao recalled.
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Encouraging her husband but an insider, Thao and his wife understood that there were no children after marriage with countless pressures.Having enough understanding to overcome all is not really difficult.
"After that, my wife and I decided to change the doctor, change the hospital because I could not have the predestined relationship with the doctor", Thao recalled. After wandering infertility groups, introduced by a friend who used to do IVF at Vinmec, Thao and his wife decided to find Dr. Chien for help, as a final destination in the journey to findchild.
The journey to find children starts from the treatment of the husband
After being examined by Dr. Chien, he advised Thao and his wife should treat the problem from his husband first.This is different from the previous regimens often the default sperm quality, so IVF is optimal, for checking if the egg size is always.
After that, her husband was transferred to Dr. Nguyen Ba Hung (male specialist of the hospital) to check, find the cause and direction of treatment.Thao was tested by Dr. Chien as an ultrasound to check and assess the health situation.She asked the doctor to take the test to send to France to see if the uterus was.With many years of experience in the profession, Dr. Chien affirmed the initial results showing that there was no need to spend time and money.
He advised the couple to pay attention to improving mental health, changing living habits, eating and sleeping more science.The rest continue to wait for treatment for her husband first.
After 3 months of treatment, Dr. Chien checked Thao to evaluate and conduct the next steps of IVF.However, at this time, Thao appeared residual follicles, high endocrine index, so they had to take medicine.By the end of July 2023, check that everything was fine, the doctor warned the patient to stimulate eggs.
After poking 3 eggs, Thao came from hope to disappointment."I have tried to change everything but why is it still so few eggs? Sadly, the doctor said that only a average type of embryo.", Thao said.
Her husband from 90kg, trying to practice to reduce 75kg.She practices yoga, walking daily.Checking the eggs before poking the eggs is fine, after finishing the abnormalities.Who penetrates this sadness?
Continuous encouragement from the doctors
Right at that confusion, the doctors of the Thao couple encouraged the couple.Having embryo is hope.Compared to the previous rate of poking eggs was also higher because the embryo was raised on the 5th day (the earlier was only on the 3rd day).In September, Thao was carried out the embryo.Fortunately, I haven't smiled at the couple.
Once again they failed to find children."I told my husband to let me cry that day."In November 2023, Thao started to stimulate the egg.This time only 3 eggs, creating a single embryo on 4 good types - from 1 abnormal egg.
Until November 24, 2023, Thao was battle by the doctor.This time, Dr. Chien changed the regimen because the previous evaluation of the body did not respond to egg stimulants.Luckily smiled at Thao and his wife.
The pregnancy test is currently 2 lines, the ultrasound is that the embryo is separated into 2
On the morning of December 4, 2023, Thao's heart once again shook because she was seen with 2 pregnancy tests.Dr. Chien appointed testing.Fortunately, her hormonal indicators are very good.
Upon receiving the results, the couple hugged and cried - the tears of happiness.Dr. Chien made an appointment for 4 days after the test.Until 8/12/2023, the test results were still good.10 days later she was checked.At this time, Thao only knew her embryo split into 2.
Thao was very happy, but Dr. Chien was quite worried because "it would be harder".The heart of a woman who desires to be a mother does not understand because she still does not know the risks of twins and eggs.At home, they kept watching the ultrasound results forever.
The anxiety came to grow up when the twins
At 7 weeks of prenatal check -ups, babies had a fetal heart but had not seen the amniotic fluid.At this time, Thao and his wife began to worry about knowing the risk of twins.
Doctors encouraged "not to see, not necessarily no parents are happy, wait 2 weeks after checking".Arriving home, the first thing is Thao hurriedly went online to learn about the common twins.Anxiety began to grow.
Being encouraged by her husband, reassuring spirit, and stronger.Fortunately, the prenatal check at 9 weeks is clear.At this time, both spouses and Dr. Chien breathed a sigh of relief.That day, Dr. Chien officially congratulated the couple because he was really worried, did not dare to say fear of affecting the psychology of the couple.
12 weeks, 16 weeks, 22 weeks and 32 weeks ... During pregnancy, Thao told me that I was closely monitored by Dr. Chien, every 2 weeks, I examined once.During that time, there were several times checking the children with weight and amniotic fluid - the manifestation of the twins.The doctor is more close, checking for a week at a week, encouraging the results of the weight always has errors, so "parents don't have to worry, I keep watching closely".
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"And really lucky, the children also heard Dong Vien's parents, so after each difference, the next time they checked, the two children had the same indicators," Thao showed off.
At 12 weeks, Thao also bleeds a lot.At that time near Tet.Thao called BS Chien.He appointed to the hospital immediately to lie down and then it was fine.28 Lunar New Year, the doctor did not forget to tell the patient to call him."Receiving a message of advice, my husband and I feel warm. I probably worried about Tet unfortunately I had a problem but did not dare to call you," Thao laughed.
Successful finish with twin couple
33 weeks, Thao was admitted to the hospital because of the mound, she could not breathe.Dr. Chien assigned hospitalization to monitor and everything was fine.In July 2024, Thao and his wife welcomed the two princesses in the joy of the family, relatives and Bs Chien as well as the doctors at the Vinmec Reproduction Support Center.
"My family is grateful to Dr. Chien and the girls at IVF Vinmec very much. Thanks to the doctors, my wife and I have welcomed 2 angels after more than 5 years of searching for children. Dr. Chien - Doctor has the most mindfulBut my wife and I met because I always wanted the most beneficial things for the patient, creating a feeling of peace of mind without psychological pressure, limiting the use of drugs and tests to do ... meeting Uncle is one.Luckily in my husband and wife's life, "Thao shared.